Simplicable Guide

9 Examples of Decorum

John Spacey, November 10, 2018

Decorum is behavior that is controlled, calm and polite. The term implies refined adherence to the norms of an society, culture, organization and situation. The following are common examples of decorum.

Discipline

Controlled and directed behavior. For example, an audience member who can listen to a speaker for an extended period of time without day dreaming or playing with a mobile device.

Civility

Civility is the demonstration of respect for people and society. For example, building rapport and a sense of fellowship with those in your community. Civility also implies that you can handle intense arguments without becoming negative and emotional.

Politeness

Demonstrating concern for the feelings of others such as a dinner host who inquires about people's dietary restrictions.

Etiquette

Following the rules of behavior established by a society, culture or institution. For example, allowing the opposition to speak without interruption in a debate.

Language

Using an appropriate level of language for the situation at hand. For example, a leader of a nation who uses eloquent and precise language when speaking in an official capacity.

Fashion

Following the conventions of fashion that apply to a situation such as wearing dark, modest clothing to a funeral.

Taste

The ability to present yourself in a manner that is pleasing to others in the context of a culture. For example, using a soft voice where appropriate.

Refinement

Refinement is the process of improving yourself with practice and diligence. For example, Japanese tea ceremony is the pursuit of an aesthetic in the humble task of preparing, serving and appreciating tea that requires many years of diligent practice to refine.

Formalities

Compliance with formal rules, processes and procedures. For example, a parliamentary system with traditional rules guiding everything from where members of parliament sit to procedures for voting.